Open mouth . . . insert foot. Don’t we all wish we could avoid that scenario? All of us have had moments when we wish we could reach out and retrieve the words that just left our tongue. And all of us have had our lives shaped by the words spoken to us. Over and over again we are reminded of their power and how one of the most important skills we can learn is how to constantly monitor OUR BIG FAT MOUTH. Join us for this 4-part series.
SEPTEMBER 9 – “QUICK TO LISTEN, SLOW TO SPEAK”
We all know what it’s like to be hurt by someone who just couldn’t listen long enough to understand us. Maybe in their attempt to be right, they damaged a relationship that could have been saved with a little patience and curiosity. You’ve probably been on the other side of that coin too. Taking the verbal offense may have won the argument, but you lost relationally. What if we didn’t settle for being right, but tried to make things right instead? The longer we listen, the more we learn, and the better chance we have of protecting ourselves from our own big fat mouths.
SEPTEMBER 16 – “POWERFUL WORDS”
Like a small spark that has the potential to scorch an entire green forest, our tongues are untamable, with the power to control our whole bodies. We have a tool that can be used to build up those around us or tear them down in just a few words. What do we do with that kind of power? We can’t lock it away. But we can, by God’s grace, learn to control it.
SEPTEMBER 23 – “UNWHOLESOME”
Our big fat mouths can be destructive, but they also have the power to build others up. What we say can impact the quality, and even the direction, of the lives of the people around us. How can we use this power for good?
SEPTEMBER 30 – “RIGHT WHERE YOU WANT ’EM”
What goes around often comes around. The powerless often find themselves in a position of power and the people who hurt us may someday need us. In the moments when we’ve got those people right where we want ’em, what we say will say as much about us as anything else. If our words are stones, will we choose to throw them, or use them to pave the way forward?